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 How I Revealed being Lesbian to My Husband
After dating my husband for five years he asked me to marry him. Believe it or not I had never been with another man besides my husband. I had thought that everything about him was great and this was meant to be so I agreed to marry him. I thought that sex was something that you did to please your husband and that you didn't really have to enjoy it to please him. As I grew, I read women's magazines and watched shows on television that told me about orgasm's, how women feel, how some women never have this feeling ad I thought - they are talking about me!
I started going to clubs and dances with other women for ladies nights out and I found out through conversation and books that they told me to read that I was confused sexually. I also learned that some of my feelings towards my husband were friendly and not really what other women might consider love. I wanted to experiment sexually but I also didn't want to cheat on my husband.
In passing conversation one day I suggested to my husband that we have a three some. He laughed at me and said, what two men in my bed? No way. And I said no - how would you like two women in your bed at one time? And he knew I was serious. While it comes to happen that one of my closest single friends had no problem with the situation I really didn't have to 'talk her' into anything and we arranged our night.
I experienced sexual feelings that I never knew could happen to me! My husband had never made me feel this good and all I could think about is what am I going to do after this? I decided that I wanted to be with women sexually and not a man. I also decided that I wasn't going to wait but tell my husband right away that I wanted a divorce there was no sense I dragging this out any longer.
When I approached my husband one evening as we were watching television, I told him I wanted a divorce. He just looked at me and said he was sorry. And I asked him what for? He started telling me about this woman that he has been seeing and isn't that why I wanted a divorce? I started to laugh as he was seeing my best friend behind my back and he thinks he fell in love with her, and she is the reason that I discovered my inner self! Now I am living on my own, dating a wonderful woman and we plan on being intimate soon and my ex-husband is in the middle of his second divorce from my ex best friend!
I am so glad I found me before I was buried in someone else's dream!
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